Why Does Austen’s World Appeal So Much to Modern Ladies?

Because not that much has changed in terms of gender expectations and role fulfillment. Gender dynamics are largely the same it seems, even though women are now able to own property and have the right to vote.

We tend to think of Jane Austen’s time period, around the late 18th and early nineteenth century, as charmingly antiquated. Despite the changes that have occurred since the 18th century, it seems culturally significant that Austin’s male protagonist has regained popularity in recent years.

A friend recently told me that her little nephew asked her if she was in college. When she told him that she had already graduated years before, he said “Oh my gosh! We need to get you a husband! You should join an internet dating site!”

I other words, a person as young as 9 years old was concerned that a woman of my friend’s age was unmarried.

This issue is also discussed in all Austen novels. The social need for marriage is pressed upon the female characters, and they are forced to weigh their own desire against the desires of the world. The reason many of Austen’s novels are considered “happy endings” is because we are excited that the protagonists’ desire won despite the pressures bearing against them.

In the 1850’s, a man by the name of William Rathbone Greg wrote an essay titled “why are women redundant?” It was thought that there were too many single women of a certain age in England at the time, and this evoked anxiety in a heteronormative, marriage-driven society. Greg’s attempt to solve the problem was to come up with a plan to ship all of the “quite abnormal” number of unmarried females overseas to the Americas so that they could fulfill their proper gender role and marry. Women were seen to be a problem to be dealt with- if they did not marry, the entire social structure might have crumbled, according to Greg and probably Mrs. Bennet from Pride and Prejudice.

These fears of staying single were grounded in harsh reality for the women in Austen’s time. In Persuasion, this fear of the unmarried woman, or “superfluous woman” is discussed in detail. Anne Eliot, the protagonist of the novel, is 27 when the book opens. She is seen as a problem, a liability, as one who has passed her peak time for being auctioned off to the highest bidder in the marriage arena. She is plain and “old,” two things that damage her chance of fulfilling her gender role.

In today’s world, there are plenty of unmarried women. But oftentimes, they are still seen as a “problem.” I mean, how much has really changed since 1851? Do we not still live in a heteronormative, marriage and babies driven society? Most women I know, even the independent and educated ones, still feel pressure from family and friends to “settle down,” and many wish to marry for various reasons. I currently work with a 21 year old who is being pressured by her family to marry as soon as she can. She often talks about how worried she is that it won’t work with her current boyfriend both because she likes him and also because she’s “running out of time.”  Time for what, exactly?

I often here snippets of conversations that sound like the Eliots from Persuasion. People judging women on their age, and how much time they have left to fulfill what they were apparently purposed to do, how shabby they look, how they will never “find a man,” etc. Unfortunately, I am 26, and all these people talking about running out of time are, quite frankly, freaking me out.

This is becoming more true now because I am feeling more and more inclined to become a redundant woman and do whatever I want without obligation to a partner or children. If that’s how I end up living my life, I can think of at least 30 or 40 acquaintances off the top of my head who would feel uncomfortable having me around.  As a single woman of a “certain age,” I am still a liability. Perhaps not as much as in the time Jane Austen was writing, or even William Greg, but still, a liability nonetheless.

In Jane Austen’s world, at least to contemporary viewers, there seem to be certain rules that guarantee a chance at a proposal. If you were of a certain age, and a man called on you, or danced more than a few dances with you, it is significant in terms of the likelihood of proposal.

For the multitudes of heterosexual women who are trying not to be superfluous or redundant, who are dating men and looking for “Mr. Right” or “Mr. Future Husband” in every man they meet and constantly failing to find him, the predictability of 18th and early 19th century courtship can be very appealing.

I am not implying that all women feel this pressure to avoid living what Greg terms an “incomplete existence” and therefore are attracted to the courtship in Austen’s world. Do I think it could be a factor in some of the more recent popularity? Yes. Do I think it is important to study both Jane Austen and the potential cultural undercurrents that make her work extraordinarily popular right now? Yep.

Yours redundantly,

Miss E


7 comments on “Why Does Austen’s World Appeal So Much to Modern Ladies?

  1. Melissa says:

    Hahaha…In his defense he told me I needed a boyfriend..not a husband 😉

  2. K@ says:

    I feel you here. Though I didn’t experience that expectation as much in America–probably because I left at 21–in Japan, often one of the first five questions I’m asked on meeting someone is “So, are you married?” When I respond in the negative, it follows with, “Then do you have a boyfriend?” After another negative, I’m asked about preferences, if I’d date Japanese guys, and my protest that I don’t feel rushed nor inclined to have a boyfriend is met with, “Oh, yes, have fun for a few years and THEN have babies.”

    Japan sometimes feels even more stuck in the 50s. There is a clear and present expectation for women to be homemakers, and though many women do legitimately want to have children and stay home with them, I can’t help but wonder about what role societal expectations played in their choice.

    But maybe there is a certain expectation for men, too? While it may strike later in terms of age, I do think it exists. And hey, Mrs Bennet is pretty clear about such expectations from the very first 😉

    • Hey K@! It is so good to read your comments here. I definitely agree that there are pressures and expectations for men as well, especially men of “a certain age.” It does seem to me that the expected female age for settling down is still much younger though because of the childbearing imperative. It is interesting to hear about the cultural differences as well between the American “push for marriage” culture and Japan. It seems like it is still not necessarily seen as an option not to marry there. Are there any other cultural expectations you have noticed that are more traditional in terms of gender?

      • K@ says:

        Haha, well, just today I had a personal fit about the fact that at sports practice the boys run further than the girls because of “gender differences,” when really the distances are so small as to make any actual physical differences arbitrary.

        Equal employment and payment is also a bigger problem in Japan than America, I feel. Probably for a similar reason–the women’s job is still perceived to be home first in many cases.

        And yes, I would agree that a man’s marriage imperative generally hits later than a woman’s, which is silly.

  3. K@, that is really interesting! I feel like I would be having lots of literary feminist rants all the time. By the way, when I update my blogroll this weekend, would be OK with me linking to your page?

    Miss E

  4. […] is actually showing how many modern women actually feel, since we are still pressured to marry, as I have discussed before in previous posts.  Everybody wants love and companionship, so that’s not a new concept to work with, and it does […]

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